“My father built a small printing business over thirty years, and he has always said it would be mine. He is 64 and tired. Last month a company in Pune offered me a product role at twice what the business pays me, starting in January. My younger sister works in the business too and says she could run it, but my father does not take her seriously. If I go, I may be handing him a worry he did not ask for; if I stay, I may be living his plan instead of mine. Do I take the Pune job?”
Sarathi, the voice that reads your dilemma, asked one thing first: Has your father seen the Pune offer, and if so, what did he say? You: He does not know about the offer yet, and I have not asked him what he would want if it were not about me.
The callBefore deciding on Pune, tell your father, who built this small printing business over thirty years, about the offer.
You: Choose a quiet time this week and tell your father about the Pune offer in person.
The exact first sentence to say“Papa, I have been offered a job in Pune, and before I decide anything I want to hear what you would want for the business.”
Better one's own duty, though destitute of merit, than the duty of another, well discharged. Better death in the discharge of one's own duty; the duty of another is full of danger.
Bhagavad Gita 3.35