When family duty and your own life pull in opposite directions — the hardest domestic decisions, read honestly.
An only son sends money and calls every Sunday — and still hangs up convicted. A composite family dilemma read on four lenses, plus the Two-Column Ask Test to separate the help you can give from the grief you can only witness.
Your family lined up a match. You feel nothing for their pick and something real for the one they'd never accept. Before you call it love-versus-duty, run the eight lenses on the move you're actually making: the drift that avoids the conversation.
You signed a lease across town, but every Sunday still belongs to the family you left. A committed KarmaLens read on the standing lunch nobody ever agreed to — and a rename test you can run tonight.
Ten years of showing up while your sibling sent excuses — now a parent needs daily care. Is 'fair' equal from today, or does the backlog count? We score the composite on four fixed lenses and name the one that forces the cut.
A composite family case: parents paid for the degree, the deposit, the wedding — and now use the ledger to steer a career move nobody asked them to weigh in on. Watch four lenses separate gratitude from an unsigned bill.
You wanted forty people in a garden. They quietly promised three hundred. Run the tension through duty and wider welfare, and find out what the guest list is actually buying.
A composite move-cities-vs-ageing-parents dilemma, scored on eight fixed lenses. Where duty and clean motive disagree — and how to tell guilt apart from dharma tonight, for free.