They moved on. You'd stay stuck to be fair.
Your ex found someone in six weeks. You're still not dating, still haven't deleted the photos. A worked Gita reading on the difference between loyalty and keeping score in an empty courtroom.
Relationship decisions
Stay-or-leave, forgive-or-confront, boundary-or-punishment — relationship dilemmas worked through with the Gita, with worked examples.
They vented. You carried it. Now who comforts you?
You became the household's ground wire — absorbing every bad day, never unloading back because 'they have it harder.' A composite reading walks four Gita lenses through the exact trap: you can't name the imbalance without sounding like you're keeping score.
They always 'meant well.' The hurt lands the same.
A composite friendship where every cutting remark comes stamped 'I meant well' — brought to a reading that uses the eight lenses as instruments to show where intention earns weight and where it's just subsidizing a pattern.
They forgot. You remember everything. Who's owed?
When you carry the whole archive of a relationship and your partner genuinely doesn't, accurate memory can quietly turn into a weapon. We score the ledger on four lenses — and watch honesty and motive disagree.
They changed. But only when you're about to leave.
You said the sentence, and suddenly they're trying. A decision brief on whether this is a real turn or a thermostat set to your exit — with a first step, held open until you mark it done, so you leave the reading holding something usable.
They text 'happy birthday.' You want a friend back.
Two people who were close a decade ago now trade one message a year. Should you try to revive the friendship or let it fade? KarmaLens asks what it needs to know, weighs the decision through its eight lenses where they fit, and makes one committed call.
You went quiet to make a point. Did they get it?
Withdrawal feels like the strong, dignified move — it costs you nothing to say, because you're not saying anything. We run one composite silent-treatment standoff through four of the eight lenses to find where a boundary ends and a rigged test begins.
You told them once. Now you're 'reminding.' Nagging?
You asked for one change months ago. Now you repeat it weekly and wonder if you've become the thing you hate. We score the line between a boundary and a reminder loop on four fixed lenses — and name which one this actually is.
You do everything. They notice nothing. Speak or split?
You carry the whole relationship unthanked, and can't tell if the resentment is a reason to speak or a reason to leave. We score one composite across four lenses and find the sentence you've never said.
You keep score. They don't know it's a game.
You've been auditing a relationship the other person doesn't know is being audited. A KarmaLens read on the secret ledger — and the one test that tells a boundary from a sentence.
You forgave them once. They did it again. Now what?
A repeat offense feels like proof the first forgiveness was a mistake. Run one composite through four of the eight lenses and watch 'leave or stay' resolve into a third shape neither lens saw alone.
Are you giving them space, or quietly leaving?
Restraint and withdrawal wear the same face — a quiet phone. A worked read on the eight lenses that separates letting someone move from checking out while keeping the label.